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Holocaust survivor Paul Grinwald was born in Paris, France in 1933, to a traditional family who observed Jewish holidays. Paul attended kindergarten in Paris from age three and went to government schools later. He loved school and was an avid reader.

On his sixth birthday, his aunt Chana Milechman gifted him a cutlery set – a fork, knife and spoon – engraved with his initials. He still remembers the day clearly – his aunt and her children were all present at the luncheon.

“I loved it [the cutlery set], I used to eat with it all the time until I was nine years old.”

In 1942 Paul and his family made the difficult decision to flee their apartment in Paris and cross the demarcation line to Vichy France. When I was nine years old, we had to leave Paris in a hurry. We were told to leave everything behind, we were not to take anything with us, because we would be crawling under barbed wire for quite a while, and we did not want to be weighed down by anything.”

Paul left his possessions behind in Paris, including the cutlery set that he had received from his aunt. He treasured the cutlery, but knowing they would weigh them down, he left them behind. Or so he thought.

For approximately one year, Paul and his sister Suzanne were placed on a farm in France where they worked, pretending to be Christians. When the money their parents supplied the farmers to care for them ran out, they went into hiding with their parents until liberation.

After the war, Paul found out that his aunt and her children were murdered in the gas chambers of Auschwitz. The family moved back to Paris for a brief period before immigrating to Australia in November 1946.

An emotional discovery

Paul was certain his treasured cutlery had been lost during the war.

In 1978 when Paul’s mother Malka passed away, Paul’s wife Sarah and his sister Suzanne emptied his parents’ apartment. “My wife brought home a box of odd cutlery which she put under the sink and forgot about.”

In 1993 Sarah re-discovered the box under the sink and “found the two items [spoon and fork] which were totally black. She polished them up and found my initials on them.”

Paul’s cutlery engraved with his initials.

“I was sure that I had left them in Paris in 1942. And yet, there they were. I got most emotional about it, and I treasured them until I decided to give them to the Melbourne Holocaust Museum.”

Paul was overcome with emotion because this cutlery set is not just a cutlery set to him – it is a symbol. It serves as a memorial to “my aunty and her children, who were gassed in Auschwitz. Their memory will live together with that cutlery.”

Although Paul found it difficult to part with his cutlery, he was “honoured” to donate the set to the MHM to ensure that his family’s memory would live on through every visitor who walked through the museum doors. When asked what he hopes people will take away from viewing the cutlery within our Hidden: Seven Children Saved exhibition, he said:

“I think it will make them aware of the Holocaust, and of artefacts that relate to the Holocaust; not only the dramatic side of it, but the hopeful side of it, of the people, and the things that have survived.”


By MHM Admin on 5 Sep 2023
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